The Sissy’s Guide to Feminine Chastity Play

I’ll be honest with you—the first time I locked myself up, I thought it was just about the chastity cage. Wrong. The real fun started when I slipped into my panties and realized… I didn’t look like a boy anymore. That little bulge I used to fuss about? Gone. Instead, there was this smooth, girlish outline that made me blush every time I caught my reflection.

Here’s the thing about feminine chastity play: it’s not just “denial,” it’s transformation. The cage keeps your cock out of the game so the rest of you can step into your softer, prettier side.

Pick the right sissy chastity cage. For me, shorter cages made everything click—literally. Micro, flat, or inverted ones give that tucked, almost pussy-like look under skirts or leggings. It’s wild how fast your brain goes from I’m locked to I’m her.

Make it a ritual. I’d pick out silky panties, slide on stockings, maybe a cute little skirt—and suddenly the lock on my cage didn’t feel like control, it felt like permission. Permission to be girly, to be seen, to stop worrying about my dick and focus on how good I looked.

Obedience makes it hotter. When a keyholder told me what to wear and how long I’d stay caged, it took everything up a notch. Doing chores in a skirt with my cage hidden underneath? Pure humiliation heaven.

The mindset is everything. The longer you stay locked, the more your brain rewires itself. Erections become impossible, so your attention drifts. Instead of “when will I get off?” it’s “how cute can I look today?” That’s the sweet spot.

Every time I catch myself in the mirror now, I don’t see a locked boy. I see a sissy who’s been reshaped—cockless, girly, and blushing at the thought of it. And honestly? That’s exactly where I want to be.