The First Time I Wore a Chastity Cage to a Kink Party: I Was Not Ready

Okay, so let me just say this upfront: I thought I was ready. I really did.
I’d been wearing chastity cage at home, locking myself up, feeling all smug like “Yeah, I got this.” Spoiler alert? I did not have this.

The party was one of those underground kink nights where literally anything goes. People in collars, latex, someone walking their sub around on a leash — honestly, it was hot as hell. And me? I’m walking in, caged, heart pounding, wondering if everyone can tell I’ve got my junk locked up like it’s on house arrest.

I picked skinny black jeans.
Big mistake.

No one tells you that tight jeans and a cage don’t always mix. You think you’re being sleek and low-key, but nope — I kept shifting around all night because the chastity cage kept pressing in weird spots. (FYI, micro cock cages save lives. If you know, you know.)

About an hour in, I went to the bathroom, looked down, and realized I was sitting on my own balls. Full on. I almost tapped out right there.

Lesson? Try sitting down in your chastity cage BEFORE you wear it out. Test your positions. Your future self will thank you.

I didn’t even have to tell anyone. It’s like people have a sixth sense for who’s locked. This Domme literally walked past me, made eye contact, smirked, and whispered, “Poor little locked boy.”
Bruh.
I melted on the spot.

Suddenly everyone’s teasing, light grabs, playful humiliation, people asking to shake the cage like they’re checking for loose change. I thought I’d be embarrassed. Nope. It was exhilarating.
The chastity cage does this thing where you’re constantly aware of it. It’s like a buzzing secret that just sits there, making everything feel ten times more intense.

Would I Do It Again?

In a heartbeat. But next time, I’m going smarter: looser fit, more lube, longer wear test beforehand.

The thrill? Unmatched. Walking around locked, teased by strangers, knowing you can’t do a damn thing about it? 
It’s chaotic. It’s awkward. It’s hot. And honestly, it was one of the best nights I’ve ever had.

So yeah, if you’re thinking about it — just go for it. It’s a game-changer. Just… maybe skip the skinny jeans.