Straight, Gay, Bi, or Queer: Why Chastity Transcends Labels

Whether you’re straight, gay, bi, queer, or somewhere in between, the thrill of chastity hits the same nerve. It doesn’t care who you’re attracted to—it’s about how you play with desire.

Some guys wear a cage for their girlfriends. Some wear it for their boyfriends. Some do it solo, with a fantasy keyholder in their head. And then there are couples—gay, straight, or mixed—who use chastity to spice up the bedroom, build trust, or just drive each other crazy in the best way. The label doesn't matter. The connection, the teasing, the mind games—that’s what keeps people coming back.

Straight guys? Many hand their key over to their wives or girlfriends. Some are into female domination. Some want to prove loyalty. Some just love the frustration.
Gay guys? Chastity often plays into power exchange—daddy/boy, dom/sub, pup/handler. For some, it’s about control. For others, it’s about denying themselves pleasure until they’re begging.
Bi or curious? Chastity can be the bridge. It’s a safe way to explore submission, try new fantasies, or experience surrender without jumping into a full-blown relationship.
Queer folks? Many just say, “Screw the boxes. Lock me up.” And that’s kind of the point. Chastity doesn’t need a category. It’s a feeling, a kink, a mindset.

One customer told us he started wearing a cage because his girlfriend wanted control. Now, he wears it for himself. Another said his boyfriend uses it as foreplay for days. One sissy said it helped her feel more feminine, tucked and denied. Different reasons, same lock.

At the end of the day, chastity isn’t about who you sleep with. It’s about the thrill of being denied, controlled, teased—and sometimes owned. Whether you’re wearing it for someone, or for yourself, it’s your story. And it doesn’t need a label.

Want to explore it your way? Check out our range of chastity cages—silicone, metal, micro, sissy, and everything in between. Your kink. Your rules. Locked.