My First Time in a Chastity Cage – Here’s How It Went

I’ll be real with you—I was nervous. Like, heart-pounding, hands-sweaty kind of nervous. The idea of putting my junk into a cage and locking it up felt wild... but exciting. I’d read all the stories online, seen the pics, even flirted with the fantasy for months. But actually doing it? That hit different.

So, I ordered a beginner-friendly chastity cage. It was one of those soft silicone types, not too intimidating, came with a few ring sizes. When it arrived, I stared at the box for an hour. No lie. I finally took a shower, trimmed up (important tip), and gave it a shot.

Getting it on was awkward the first time. I fumbled with the ring, couldn’t figure out the angle, and accidentally pinched myself more than once. It took me three tries to get the fit right. My advice? Use lube—it’s not optional. It helps everything slide in and makes adjusting way easier.

Once it was on and locked, I stood there in front of the mirror like… okay, what now?

It felt snug, but not painful. More like a constant reminder that I wasn't in charge down there anymore. And honestly, that feeling was kind of addicting. I kept checking myself in the mirror, shifting around, testing how it felt to sit, walk, even lie down. It was weirdly comfortable. Secure, but not too tight.

That first night, I only wore it for about 3 hours. I didn’t want to overdo it. But those 3 hours? My brain was on fire. Every little movement reminded me I was locked. The urge to touch was there—but I couldn’t. And that was the hottest part.

What surprised me most? I thought it would hurt. It didn’t. I thought I’d get bored. I didn’t. I thought I’d feel stupid. I didn’t. I felt… controlled. Tamed. Teased by the idea that someone else could hold the key, even if it was just me for now.

If you’re curious and thinking about trying it, here’s what helped me:

• Start with silicone or something soft. Go easy on yourself.

• Find the right ring size—don’t just guess. If it’s too tight, it’s no fun.

• Use a mirror and give yourself time to figure it out. It’s a skill.

• Don’t jump into long-term wear right away. A few hours is plenty to start.

Now? I’ve upgraded to steel. I’ve tried wearing it overnight. I’ve even handed over the key. But that first time? It flipped a switch in me.

And I’ve never looked back.

Thinking about your first time too? My store has beginner-friendly cages, soft silicone options, and micro sizes if you want something discreet. Start slow. Lock up. See how it feels.